Or so it should be as it's Valentines Day tomorrow... A time to reflect, and think about love. What does love mean to you, or rather what should Love mean to you. Love is difficult to define as it means so much, and yet can be so taken for granted. Love is beautiful, because it is a feeling controlled by your heart. It is only with the heart that one can see, hear and feel clearly. People or things that we truly love touch our heart before our head analyses them away. Let yourself be moved by people, by images, and places, let your heart hear the music, as this will make you more alive than others. Move with your soul through life, and appreciate everything that happens to you in life with the feeling of love. Life then cant get any better.
The happiest women today are the ones who have made the choice to love themselves wholly and truly. Women who chose to leave the past behind them, and work on their own self-esteem and put a high price tag on their own self-esteem. They stopped playing the victim, they moved past their anger, tears and bitterness. They realized that happiness and love is a personal choice and responsibility. They are happy and love themselves because they don’t need validation from anyone. They are happy because they have chosen to be queens.
Shower people with love and happiness, a smile can mean so much, a flower given by a stranger, a child giggling and laughing near you. Always love someone from your heart and not from your mood or need. In life anything that happens for a reason, and anything that does not happen is only waiting for a better reason around the corner, so love the negative as well as the positive. In time as we mature life takes on a different perspective, as so little can mean so much, a beautiful dawn, a lovely sunset, a bright sunshiny day, sweet birds singing, the fragrance of blooming flowers, a fresh cool breeze. Put your heart, mind and soul into even your smallest acts, and let those acts be acts of love in service to others.
At the end of the day you will be remembered and loved by those that you showed love and kindness too. So take time to think of others with love, with gladness, with beauty of heart. The happiest people don’t necessarily have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything. Life is a gift, so live and appreciate and love and rejoice in the present moment, wisely and earnestly. Relax, find love, and humour and smile and laugh, and breathe easy.
Love and Light,